Sensual Activities for Couples

 Finding a new love interest often fills us with an unmistakable feeling of bliss, often described as a fluttery feeling in one’s stomach. Ten years gone by and you’ve still got butterflies flitting about? No doubt you are in love!

To give your relationship a nice balance of passionate playtime, consider varying your romantic routine from time to time. Every couple engages in a different style of sexual behaviour, but turning things down a notch in the lust department and heating them up on a sensual level can truly re-ignite the spark that initially drew you together.

No matter if your romance has survived the test of time or if it is merely beginning its path down love lane, take the time to pamper your partner, and enjoy some pampering yourself! Consider these options for a romantic, passion-filled evening, and modify them to suit your relationship’s style and your and your partner’s needs.

Spend an evening preparing a romantic dinner together. Set some melodic music to play gently in the background as you prepare food together and indulge in a glass of wine. Relax and take pleasure in the culmination of your combined efforts. Linger at the table until the last drop of wine has kissed your lips and stare deeply into each other’s eyes. Challenge your mate to hold your gaze simply by the intensity caught within your eyes. Share a slice of dessert on the same plate and take the time to feed each other the delicious delight. As your meal concludes, kick off your shoes and hold each other close as you begin to slow dance in the living room.

Treat each other to aromatherapy and full-body massages with essential oils. First decide if you would like to wear your bathing suits, your undergarments, a towel, or less. Select a location such as a comfortable bed, a lounge chair or a nice clean spot on the floor, stretched across a soft blanket. You may choose to play gentle background music or sounds such as ocean or brook soundtracks, or those featuring the wind, rainforests, etc. Be sure to select an aromatic essential oil to massage into your sweetheart’s skin for a soothing and sensual experience.

Take turns pampering each other and stimulating one another’s muscles by firmly massaging the back, neck, shoulders, arms and even the hands to start. Pay special attention to the lower back, as this area experiences a lot of stress from general daily activities and from being on the job. Work your magic on your partner from head to toe, focusing more energy on the muscles that seem tighter or those that have been neglected. The backs of one’s legs should benefit significantly if massaged properly. You may wish to consult a book on different types of massage before engaging in the full-body massage.

Indulge in a hot bubble bath for two, complete with wine and sweet treats, candlelight and the spark between the two of you. Select a fragrant bubble bath that appeals to both your senses and drift away in a relaxing pool of warm, sudsy water. Gently caress each other’s backs and enjoy the peace and solitude surrounding you. Sip wine or hot tea, indulge in chocolates or small dessert pastries and revel in your stolen moments together. While the dim flicker of the candle sets the mood, the two of you can unwind in the comfort of a warm bath, wrapped in each other’s arms. If you are not yet at the point in your relationship where you feel comfortable taking a bath together, consider a dip in a hot tub under the stars at a bed and breakfast or fancy hotel. Go out for a night on the town in a bustling city and settle down for the evening by relaxing in the lodge’s sauna, swimming pool and whirlpool tub.

No matter what you do with your sweetheart during your passionate evening together, remember to pay special attention to his or her senses. Breathe sweet nothings into an unsuspecting ear, gently brush your fingertips across the arm while talking, trace a trail of soft, sweet kisses across the neck.

Let your heart dictate your every move and enjoy true love in all its bliss!

By Kathryn M. D'Imperio

Love Your Sex Life

Touch him as much as possible. Place a gentle hand on his shoulder or thigh when you're talking to him, rumple his hair or pat his butt when passing by him, hold his hand when walking together, squeeze your thigh against his when sitting together at your child's practice, straighten his shirt before he walks out the door, knead his neck when he's driving. Remember, action speaks louder than words. You can tell someone you love them and are proud to be with them dozens of times and it won't get the message across nearly as quickly as giving his hand a kiss when he leaves for work or sneaking up behind him and hugging him. It's these little gestures that reinforce your oneness.

Make your surroundings a little more sensual.  Don't wait for special occasions to dim the lighting with candles or perfume the air with sexy-scented incense such as jasmine or vanilla.

Ask him to slowly and gently brush your hair. It's such a simple move, yet it both relaxes and stimulates you while making you feel totally pampered. Ask him to take his time, stroking you from root to end, section by section, until your tresses feel smooth and silky.

Turn a hug into a surprise sensual neck and back massage and give your partner a blissful experience.

Put on a CD. Everyone knows that mood-setting music can put you in romance mode. But some sounds are more sensual than others. When you hear music with a strong bass beat, like reggae or Latin songs, you can feel the vibrations resonating through your lower body. And these vibrations are what make you feel aroused and get you itching to move in sexual ways.

Hand feed each other unusual fruits like kiwis, pomegranates, or star fruits. They're exotic, smell delicious, and feel sexy in the mouth. Slices of mango are also a good sensual choice with a bonus: You get to lick the juices off each other's fingers.

In bed at night, make sure to touch at least one part of his body, even if you don't go for full-tilt spooning.

Throw away your TV Guide. Instead of going on autopilot with the remote, pledge to have a "No TV Night" once a week. Then fill the time reconnecting by conversing, cuddling, and kissing.

Start sleeping in the nude. If you're usually a head-to-toe flannel woman, take it in small steps: a tank and shorts, then just a tee, and so on until you're completely nude. Once you get over the nakedness of it, the feeling of having nothing on is actually powerful and potent — and may even lead to sexier dreams, not to mention a more tantalizing night-time cuddle...or more.

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