How to understand women

Women are complex creatures, sometimes frustratingly so. There are times when we make the men in our lives want to throw up their hands in defeat and say, "I'll just never understand what women want!"

Do not give up hope. Sometimes the key to understanding a woman is to read between the lines of what she is saying to discover what she really means.

It is not entirely our fault that we have this round about way of communicating. Men are taught from a young age that asking for what they want is the best way to get it, while girls are encouraged to use our "feminine wiles" to manoeuvre our way into what our heart desires.

It does not help that a straightforward persistent woman is often tagged with unfair labels like "bitch" or "ball breaker". So instead of being direct, we sometimes take the long way to getting to what we really mean.

When your girl complains about her long hard day, there is a good chance it's not just to get it off her chest. She wants you help her relax, but instead of just asking you for a back massage, or to run her a hot bath, she feigns helplessness so you will be able to sweep in as her man and fix everything for her.

It is sometimes hard for a woman to ask for help from her man. We all want to believe we can take care of ourselves, but there are times when we just want to be cuddled a little bit. Therefore, instead of being annoyed by her whining, do the smart thing and ask her what she needs to unwind.

You can tell something is bothering a woman, but when you ask she says nothing is wrong. Do not be fooled, she really does need to talk. She just wants you to press her a little. If you insist on asking what is wrong it convinces her that you really want to hear about her problems and help resolve them.

Try to encourage her to open up without nagging. Instead, let her know that you are concerned and open to listening. She really does want to tell you about the fight she had with her best friend or how much getting passed over for that promotion at work upset her, but unless you show genuine interest, she will probably keep it bottled up.

The only time this translation may not be accurate is when she is upset about something you did. In this case, she may really need some space and time to think before she confronts you with it.

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Sexual Effects of Alcohol on Women that You Should Know

Many studies are being conducted on the potential dangers and sexual effects of alcohol on women. This article emphasizes on the sexual effects of alcohol on women.

Alcohol differently affects men and women, and affects badly. When we try to look closely on the sexual effects of alcohol on women, we find very discouraging information that raises our concern since drinking is becoming more common in women now, even before the sensual activities. Many studies are being conducted on the potential dangers and other sexual effects of alcohol on women. 

Sexual effects of alcohol on women become apparent when we realize how an alcoholic woman suffers from alcohol. The commonly noted effects of alcohol on women's sexuality can be seen as the ability to achieve orgasm decreases, she will respond little to sexual stimulation, and her overall sexual response and satisfaction lower considerably. While being under the influence of alcohol, women experience vaginal dryness that makes lovemaking painful. At the same time, it is also noted that some women respond well in bed with moderate intake of alcohol.  

Why the sexual effects of alcohol on women are positive in some cases is something that has no conclusive answer so far. Studies are underway as why many women get the negative effects of alcohol on their sexual life and overall performance, and why some women report feeling good in bed after consuming alcohol. One thing is for sure that exposure to alcohol during pregnancy creates problems for the new-born that include birth defects, mental retardation, and neurodevelopment issues. This study was revealed by the Centers for Diseases Control and Prevention, USA. 

Women under the influence of alcohol pay less attention to safety measures while engaging in sensual activities. They can even involve with those people who have the potential to transmit any sexually transmitted disease. At the same time, they can fail to take precautions against pregnancy.    Moreover, it is also studied that heavy female drinkers typically have greater number of sexual partners that itself invites more risks of sexually transmitted diseases. 

Whatever is said about the sexual effects of alcohol on women, no one can deny the fact that women who are heavy drinkers subject themselves to many long-term complications that include loss of libido, lowering of arousal level, failure to achieve orgasm, increasing risk of acquiring sexually transmitted diseases, etc.  

Regardless of the fact that light alcohol consumption can lead to some increase in libido and enjoyment, the negative effects and potential dangers of alcohol are more severe for women. The decision lies with the women whether to drink or give up the habit. Moreover, chronic alcohol abuse also leads to many health problems, financial difficulties, social troubles, weak family ties, etc.

Dr Andrew Napier

Actions Are More Attractive Than Words

One of the most common mistakes that men make, that can literally kill attraction in women, is bragging:

"I am intelligent."

"I am smart."

"I am rich."

"I am honest."

"I am trustworthy."

"I am successful."

"I have a great sense of humour."

"I work out a lot."

"I like to play hard and work hard."

Avoid making such claims. You will probably come across as arrogant, and turn women off quicker than bad breath.

Instead, if you want to communicate certain good qualities of yours, do it INDIRECTLY. Do something that would make a woman infer that you have those great qualities:

- Instead of saying that you are funny -- tell her a joke.

- Instead of saying that you are smart -- share your view or opinion on some controversial political or philosophical issue.

- Instead of saying that you like to work hard and play hard -- take her out for a run/hike or to play tennis.

- Instead of telling her that you like classical music -- put your favourite CD on for her in your car or at your place.

Actions speak louder than words and they are sure more attractive to women than words.

Keep this in mind and you will get much further with the women you meet and like.

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