Flirting is fun and can lead to romance, but some
people get a kick out of leading others on. Here are a few tips
on how to flirt safely.
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Have fun! Flirt, get out there, enjoy yourself – but also control yourself. Use
your flirting with tact.
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Be on guard for people who are trying to play you. Keep your eyes open and
don't give too much of yourself away too soon.
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Use your flirting skills to get to know people, not as an end in themselves.
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Don’t be a toxic flirt, who’s addicted to leading people on. You’ll end up
messing up other people, and yourself.
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Don’t flirt to get attention and flattery. Get your self-esteem from within
yourself, not from people who don't know the real you.
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Never assume that playing games is the way to a man's heart. Don't try to make
him jealous by flirting with other men, pretending you don't remember him when
he calls or telling him you're busy for the next two weeks. A nice man will
take these indicators as a snub and may decide not to ring you again.
